What makes a good Man

You want to be man its fucking simple. Live your life based on some set of principles. Mine are  loyalty, respect, honesty, and responsibility. Loyalty is simple i look at is as being faithful to the people who faithful to you. If you have no loyalty you have nothing because everything about is open to compromise. Loyalty is built on experiences with people who you've struggled and persevered with. People who helped you when they didnt have to or didnt want to you owe them loyalty. Respect for yourself and those around. It's simple treat people how you would want to be treated. Everyone deserves respect but you cant respect anyone without respecting yourself first. You have to be honest. People cant respect you if you're dishonest and without respect there is no loyalty. Truth will hurt sometimes but the truth is always better than good feelings based on lies. What's hidden in the dark will eventually come to light. Most importantly a man has to have a sense of responsibility. As a man you have be willing to put the needs of the people who depend on you before your wants. Men now days are really quick to look for the easiest path. You pay your child support but you don't see your kids that's not responsibility, you're easing the financial burden of raising a child but you arent participating in the raising of that child and that sir is your responsibility. You say you  love your girl but you creeping around that's not love and there is no loyalty in that. How can you expect a woman to respect you when she cant trust you. How can a woman love you when you're disloyal. Fellas this shit is simple a true woman will give you everything you've ever wanted as long as she believes in you, trust you, and loves you. But she needs all three and you need to be working hard to show her you deserve that shit. Holla

Hutch